1. “Everyone is doing it.”
“I’m not everyone.”
2. “Don’t worry, I’ll use protection.”
“You’re going to need protection if you don’t leave me alone.”
3. “If you love me, you’ll have sex with me.”
“If you love me, you’ll respect my feelings and not push me into doing something that I am not ready for.”
4. “We had sex before, so what’s the problem now?”
“I have a right to change my mind. I’ve decided to wait until I’m older.”
5. “But I have to do it!”
“No you don’t. If I can wait, you can wait.”
6. “If you get pregnant, I’ll marry you.”
“I don’t want to risk getting pregnant, and I’m not ready to get married.”